India always Incredible

Often i think why is India laid behind in compare to other countries, what is the major problem over here.
Well, findings were there is no one problem or nothing as the root cause, here everything is cause..
If i list down few things they would be, though top on the list would be, Corruption, Breaking of the Rules, or in other word following the slogan " Rules are meant to be broken", every other indian has this in Mind " jane do na yaar kya fark padta hai'.. A highly illiterate thinking, which is generally followed by literate people.

Recently i was on the visit to Haridwar, i simply love that city, would share my views on that city in my next blog, for now i will write what i had observed over their.

A holy city, highly religious people come over their, thinking that coming their having bath in the holy ganges, will help them rub offf.. the crap they have done entire life.. Kidding,, dont want to hurt religious sentiments, but many people think so..

I was walking out of harki paudi.. a main ghat in Haridwar.. was in my memories of the place, as i said i love it, A beggar came in and asked for the money, i avoided, because there if i give it to one, i will have line of 100's ... i avoided and walked again in my own harmony... he still came behind pulling my duppata,, i ignored..  i was walking,, still he was behind me.. i walked around 100 meters, or more he was continuously following me asking me for money.. I boarded an auto,, what we call as an pedal rickshaw.. an open auto, 2 seater.. he was continuously holding the pipe of auto and following... i too was lill stubborn that i dont want to give anything... at last he left only when auto speeded and he could not reach,,,

I stayed there for 3 days.. i used to go at ghat 2 times a day.. same thing repeated everytime...

I wondered there were less people, less shops, more beggars.. i was really stunned to see that..
That's why i  have titled this post as incredible India...

Salute to you,,,

Signing off..

Cities.. Never Rest..

A.. Cube full of people... talking to each other, talking over the calls.. A wonderful window view from their and a fortunate to have the seat beneath.. This is where i sit in office...

Main lane or say a main road is visible direct from the place where i sit, and here is see and realize that city never rests. Right from the moment i am on my desk, till i go off, the street is always busy. 

General analysis i did couple of days back.. i know that was bit crazy to do, but i did.. was watching continuously out on the road for 10 minutes, wanted to see how many cars do pass in average 10 mins.. i was expecting the number of some where 15-30, and that could have been generally every ones thought.. 

But to my surprise, i m sure it would be surprise to all the number was 186.. 

Cities never rest because humans never do... today we are busy in only ourselves, what goes on in our surroundings is like non of my business, That has increased the crime rate near us. 

we have been so indulged in our own lives that we don't realize what we are doing, what our loved ones are doing, what people say think, nothing... Nothing at all. 

I love one line Chetan Bhagat has said in an interview once, "Give time to your family, your loved ones, because at the end no one is gonna remember your power point presentations".. Rather your love will always be remembered and respected.. would like to add in your point chetan.. 

Busy Streets, Busy lives, Busy we... That's all we have now, and we our teaching the same to next gen.. 

No complains, to any one, as i myself live the same life.. But i am and i will change this for sure..

Let the city rests.. lets help it.. lets give the time to the loved ones, who are our engines to run off... 

Signing off.. 

Freedom

This Independence certain thoughts immersed considering our freedom, along with thoughts there were questions too. I am very sure that some where in unconscious mind every Indian has these questions, but are feared to ask, but are feared to express. Some who have no fear they dont have time to....

Its been around 65 years we have got freedom from Britishers, which we celebrate till date and will be celebrating till we are alive.

But question comes is have we actually got freedom?
Answer if is asked to me i would  say NO...

Freedom is not something we need from people, but today we need freedom form our thoughts, from our own beliefs, for our own Imagination.
It is here we are tied up yet, we are neither getting free from this nor we are allowing some one to do so.

We still see people with several beliefs like
Abording/killing girl child,
Intercast/OutCast Marriages,
Differentiating between open caste and OBC caste
Ban to Widow Marriages


WHY? is the only question comes to my mind... arent they human beings, they are and same like us... we dont talk to the road sweeper, dont touch that person, if he doesnt do that work, than you will be dirtier...

These differences are ridiculous, still in villages we see high class people treating lower class, or say lower caste(basically just to name) as slaves.
The only thing in our freedom has changed is instead of Britishers ruling Indians, Indians themselves has started ruling Indians.

Come out of this, we have to grow our Minds along with our physics, we need to broaden it and accept every one with equality, and then its there where we will be getting new vision and Freedom in actual.

Signing off..

Feel

Sitting at the edge of Table.. at terrace... rain drops touching my face and passing along.. Just love this.
Mind goes total blank for the moment, forgot everything going on in life and only thing i felt was those rain drops and the view i can keep an eye from the place i was sitting.

Felt like stepping out dancing in the rain, but again came back and don't know what had stepped me to go.

I sat their for hours together just watching rain.. and came back to the memories of my actuall life from that blank mind which only felt rain.

Creation & Recreation of thoughts

Thought a quiet simple term to address. A short sweet and as simple as its spell it seems.But while you actually think, this thought takes lot of your time to get created
And once they are created, they get recreated always, in fact for entire life in the same situation or some where near by related. .
Generally thought s come by your experiences, and what you see around, but some times they go wired you go on continuously thinking what you don't want to, you don't wish too.. still you think.
Here comes the situation of control, controlling your mind, which we humans always fail to do.

When, most of people are unsuccessful they blame situations or try to put the blame on everything else on this planet, except themselves, Now that's an human tendency no body could be blamed for that. Even i do same in most of the situations.
Any ways lets get to the point, so the reason behind being their unsuccessful situation is they themselves, in those situations a humans mind is controlling entire human, which actually shouldnt be the case.

A Person who is willing to grow should be able to control his mind, and heart.. one should direct mind n heart to choose a way.. not to follow them.

And these sitiuations aarise, when some situations start bothering one self.
When we start thinking that things are not going my ways, or people are not behaving as they should, you yourself are actually making them do so, by changing your thinking, by changing your thinking's direction you guide people to follow it and get hurt n upset.

The only thing can make situation right is your own control over mind n specially over heart.

Here i sign off for now.. will soon be here with some thing new. 

My Thoughts

Though not an professional writer, i try to express myself as much as i can.
Writing in layman language, dont even have proper sentence formation, but something drives me to do so...

Yesterday evening i was driving back home, i was passing through one of the fly overs i get in my way, and was just thinking this is the time i am most with myself when i drive to the office or when i  drive back home. a cool breeze was passing through giving me a lovely feeling my hair were blowing a little in air as they were tied up... a river was passing beneath the fly over giving an atmosphere a cool touch, passing through it my eyes stucked on moon, it was looking lovely, in bit of saffron attire not full though it was looking beautiful.

All the way passing through their i was just watching moon, apart from taking care of my regualr driving. i was least concerned at that moment, how i am looking, who i am, and whats general going in my life, i was just lost in that. I felt great, and i do feel good every time i m left alone with my thoughts, in crowd of 100's on way back to my home i felt i m in peace i m alone,, with headset mugged up in my ears playing my favourite songs in back of my thoughts, i can think i an assume anything i want to.

I just simply loved it... 

Perceptions & Reactions

Psychological problems are faced by every one day in and out, but the only problem is our acceptance to those problems.

We are never ready to accept that we have built up an mind set for a certain thing or reaction, and that is why we are not able to grasp some ones perceptions & reactions.

We limit our selves to our experiences, thoughts and reactions or responses we got in those experiences.
One should move ahead and see, there is lot more people have experiened, learn from their as well.

"You wont have time to do every mistake and learn, its good to learn from others mistakes as well"
Come out of your perceptions and see world is awesome, with loads n loads of positivity.