My Journey Part 2

Time has power to change the things.. Have experienced it very closely and your patience always rewards you.

Remembering my professional journey so far i feel great with all the kith's n kins faced in those times, being an part of a traditional family and + an business family it was tough to convince them for  going out and working, and exploring the whole new world.

All thanks to my bro and my Mum who supported me very strongly in this part, and the credit purely and purely goes to them only.

I started working with an Recruitment Consultancy.. after completing my PG, and in my internship i was said that i am one of the best trainees, they have ever got, of course the mentors where wonderful, learnt a lot from them and always thankful to them .

That consultancy fired me after 10 Months stating i am an non performer, then what ever the reason may be.. but i loosed my job, hopes shattered din know what to do next, an offer from an friend came he was putting up his recruitment firm, i joined him for a time being but again, he even failed to grow that up, and mine was another failure with that.

There an stone turned for me, i got an offer from an IT company as HR executive, where i spent almost 2 years, but trust me those 2 years where the best of my life, i learnt to be self dependent there, i learnt to grow, i recognised myself over there this is what i can say, all thanks again to the CEO there who taught me things patiently, co-operated with me on every step, made me realised what  i can do and what i have yet to learn.. Most importantly he appreciated on good things always, never missed that. Thank you KP for all your support. Some where i still think that leaving that organisation was one of the mistakes i did in my professional attire.
But again moving on is the maths of life, i have accepted that,

Moved to an organisation with higher roles and responsibilities, learnt still more there, learnt how to be in an leader ship role, how to use your brains in business, took at as my org and moved on spent 1 n half years over there, the best ever team to work which i got there, but unfortunately gelling up with management was lill difficult, all efforts went unrecognised and in vain, still a good experience and lesson.

Now, finally i am some where,  where i am working truly as my own company, people supporting you, make you learn things patiently, giving you power to make your own decisions, bringing you higher n higher from where you are, the best part here is appreciation, they motivate you with appreciation, an employee is never interested in materialistic things but one line of appreciation is much more of motivation then anything else.

Not so good in words this time, i know but this is what i have briefly done on professional part,

Signing Off...

My Journey...

These days i often wonder of past and think what i was and what i am now, i some times laugh sitting alone, seeing the pictures and wondering how things change with the time, and how i have changed in due course.

Your Pocket money turns in to salary, your bicycles change in to 2 wheelers and four wheelers, Piggy Banks turn in to Bank Accounts, Cash turns in to Credit cards, trying to mention every possible thing changed in my life, A small Shelf in an common cupboard changed in to an huge room.

Fighting with siblings over the TV channels was an awesome do at that time, today we have separate TV's but we don't have that fun and preferably time to watch tv, Used to fight over Air conditioners, always in an hurry to take the seat where it blowed maximum Air, Now it doesn't gives so much fun,
Still we enjoy what we have..

When today i look at myself, i feel more surprised then on changing things, A school girl who never came out of her basic dress code of salawar kameez, it was only from home to school, and school to home, kept the college life same as well, ya lill roaming was increased but again same, coping up daily with the same traditional values of family..

The boring School girl has turned in to an hard core HR professional, with the right sense of style, right sense of dressing, behaving talking, everything is transformed, have came out of traditional thinking, huuuu i can't stop wondering even  when i am writing this. :)

There was an time i used to plead my dad to get me an cell phone, and now its an time, i can keep dozens of them together, but one is tough to handle,

Seeing my Journey i just say WOW.... its been amazing for me, and an best example and motivation for myself, that yes things change it is you who have to be patient and who have to be accurate in getting those things change... I love it all the way..

Will share my professional journey in my next blog..

Signing off...

Happy Women's Day!!!!!

Thanking to all the messages i got today through different sources, and all the wishes i got, sat with a thought what i need.

I want respect, i want safety, i want trust... Safety the word has lost its meaning in every women's life.
Every time i question myself why am i not safe, i only get one answer, because you are an women.
If this is the scenario in my every birth i would love to be women and fight with the world for the rights and justice.

Being safe, i understand how can i be safe, i am so precious, i am so beautiful, i am so unique, i am the creator of new life, i am the creator of man, how can a man made world, value me, being envy is natural.
But i am happy,  that i am still standing and will always stand and fight for my rights, fight for the justice.

This "I"has got the many powers, because I is Womenism...

Thanks MA for bringing me in this world, and for being such an awesome women n mother.

Proud to be Women.. Happy Women's Day...


Signing off...

"Lafangey Parinde"

Unusual title.. Unusual people.. Title suits them the best..

Creating the blog post for them is my view that they are part of my life,... Best team any one can have.. I am the luckiest one..

Awesome is the word i can use for them, "Lafangey Parinde",,, come make you meet them..

First one on the list goes is Rutwick... the creator of the title, Fun loving, Chrippy, Some times sensible to,, Having him around is always an great fun, Makes me laugh always.. love harassing him...  Sorry Rutwick but is true,,, Mature person, knows the responsibilities.. Good to be around... Keep it up Dude...You will rule...

Second one... Ummmm Hardik.. Chocolate boy of the team.. Always smiles, while looks at me.. i hope hardik i dont play CN channel.. Understands work.. Funny... Likes to smile and make others smile... Love working with you... You gonna Achieve Heights Man... All the best

Here we go to third one... Rafiq.. "Sky is the Limit" for you guy... working with you always brings passion in me... its always motivating me.. Its tremendous working with you Guy,,, Keep the passion alive with you,,, this fire is gona take you to the no limits... Good Luck Mate..

Pankita,... She is cute as her name... Lovely lady,,, oops can be said lovely girl... Serious on her work, serious on her life.. lill bit confused... She always makes me remind my old days.,.. Girl you will rock,,, dont worry be happy,,,, you on the right track,,, excell ahead is sure... Rock on. babes...

Bold, Fun loving, Enjoyable.. Here we go to Reema...Dedicated towards her work.. enjoys the situations and make others enjoy,,..Good Going Lady.... i love your fav word.. "Mam Aisa Nae Hai"... i always try to understand to kaisa hai... kidding sweety... Drive your passion to the next level.. Donn get confused,,, Wish you a Luck...

One word can make ppl guess who you are... "Like".... Mayur... like your way to convenience people... you want to achieve you will... nothing can stop you... Good team member,, your drive to learn new things will get you ahead..Move on. Dude.. i m sure  you will rock... Bingo...

 Love when you speak.., because you usually dont speak in front of me... Like your sense of Humor.... You guys guessed it right "Piyush" Speaks less.. but when ever  speaks.. feel like yeh aaya six.. Good one man... Your seriousness for work... right attitude.. right directions good going dear... Wishing you Fortuity ahead..

I m your Fern Mam... yes Yogita yours, dont get shocked.. the way you handle life professionally and personally i just love it... good... to learn things..from you... very body teaches you some thing in life.. you have taught me to keep patience...Good going... Wishing you the luck to always move ahead like this....

Guy you trying and achieving the things.. yes Kunjal Talking about you, good to see the change in you,.,. Keep it up dude... you will step up to the next level soon.. some where imp member of the team...

Aaaha Finally how could i forget you Nikhil who is always in the terminology of explaining me the things the way i don't want to...His fav dialogues "Kya aap bhi mam"..hahaha any ways working with you has taught mewhat ever comes in way dont roll of things...be straight on face.. people would definitely appreciate you,,, Good Good..  Wishing you a great luck ahead...


Fortunate enough to work with you guys,.. Thanks to all of you for supporting me through the all thicks and thins.. i proudly say my existence is nothing without all of you,.,.

Love you guys....

Signing off.. .... One of my Best blogs till now... and will always be....

India always Incredible

Often i think why is India laid behind in compare to other countries, what is the major problem over here.
Well, findings were there is no one problem or nothing as the root cause, here everything is cause..
If i list down few things they would be, though top on the list would be, Corruption, Breaking of the Rules, or in other word following the slogan " Rules are meant to be broken", every other indian has this in Mind " jane do na yaar kya fark padta hai'.. A highly illiterate thinking, which is generally followed by literate people.

Recently i was on the visit to Haridwar, i simply love that city, would share my views on that city in my next blog, for now i will write what i had observed over their.

A holy city, highly religious people come over their, thinking that coming their having bath in the holy ganges, will help them rub offf.. the crap they have done entire life.. Kidding,, dont want to hurt religious sentiments, but many people think so..

I was walking out of harki paudi.. a main ghat in Haridwar.. was in my memories of the place, as i said i love it, A beggar came in and asked for the money, i avoided, because there if i give it to one, i will have line of 100's ... i avoided and walked again in my own harmony... he still came behind pulling my duppata,, i ignored..  i was walking,, still he was behind me.. i walked around 100 meters, or more he was continuously following me asking me for money.. I boarded an auto,, what we call as an pedal rickshaw.. an open auto, 2 seater.. he was continuously holding the pipe of auto and following... i too was lill stubborn that i dont want to give anything... at last he left only when auto speeded and he could not reach,,,

I stayed there for 3 days.. i used to go at ghat 2 times a day.. same thing repeated everytime...

I wondered there were less people, less shops, more beggars.. i was really stunned to see that..
That's why i  have titled this post as incredible India...

Salute to you,,,

Signing off..

Cities.. Never Rest..

A.. Cube full of people... talking to each other, talking over the calls.. A wonderful window view from their and a fortunate to have the seat beneath.. This is where i sit in office...

Main lane or say a main road is visible direct from the place where i sit, and here is see and realize that city never rests. Right from the moment i am on my desk, till i go off, the street is always busy. 

General analysis i did couple of days back.. i know that was bit crazy to do, but i did.. was watching continuously out on the road for 10 minutes, wanted to see how many cars do pass in average 10 mins.. i was expecting the number of some where 15-30, and that could have been generally every ones thought.. 

But to my surprise, i m sure it would be surprise to all the number was 186.. 

Cities never rest because humans never do... today we are busy in only ourselves, what goes on in our surroundings is like non of my business, That has increased the crime rate near us. 

we have been so indulged in our own lives that we don't realize what we are doing, what our loved ones are doing, what people say think, nothing... Nothing at all. 

I love one line Chetan Bhagat has said in an interview once, "Give time to your family, your loved ones, because at the end no one is gonna remember your power point presentations".. Rather your love will always be remembered and respected.. would like to add in your point chetan.. 

Busy Streets, Busy lives, Busy we... That's all we have now, and we our teaching the same to next gen.. 

No complains, to any one, as i myself live the same life.. But i am and i will change this for sure..

Let the city rests.. lets help it.. lets give the time to the loved ones, who are our engines to run off... 

Signing off.. 

Freedom

This Independence certain thoughts immersed considering our freedom, along with thoughts there were questions too. I am very sure that some where in unconscious mind every Indian has these questions, but are feared to ask, but are feared to express. Some who have no fear they dont have time to....

Its been around 65 years we have got freedom from Britishers, which we celebrate till date and will be celebrating till we are alive.

But question comes is have we actually got freedom?
Answer if is asked to me i would  say NO...

Freedom is not something we need from people, but today we need freedom form our thoughts, from our own beliefs, for our own Imagination.
It is here we are tied up yet, we are neither getting free from this nor we are allowing some one to do so.

We still see people with several beliefs like
Abording/killing girl child,
Intercast/OutCast Marriages,
Differentiating between open caste and OBC caste
Ban to Widow Marriages


WHY? is the only question comes to my mind... arent they human beings, they are and same like us... we dont talk to the road sweeper, dont touch that person, if he doesnt do that work, than you will be dirtier...

These differences are ridiculous, still in villages we see high class people treating lower class, or say lower caste(basically just to name) as slaves.
The only thing in our freedom has changed is instead of Britishers ruling Indians, Indians themselves has started ruling Indians.

Come out of this, we have to grow our Minds along with our physics, we need to broaden it and accept every one with equality, and then its there where we will be getting new vision and Freedom in actual.

Signing off..